1. Introduction
“Do they hate the spiciness of curry?” “Won’t eat vinegared dishes?” Are you worried about your child’s taste preferences? Actually, children’s taste buds are more sensitive than adults’, and they often show strong aversion particularly to spicy and sour flavors. However, since taste preferences change with growth, there’s no need to force them to eat. Instead, they will naturally come to accept these flavors by gradually getting used to them or through making dishes more palatable. In this article, we’ll introduce cooking tips for children who struggle with spicy and sour foods to enjoy their meals.

2. Practical Points and Specific Examples
- “Understanding Children’s Taste Characteristics”
Children have more taste sensors (taste buds) on their tongues than adults, making them more sensitive to certain flavors.
- Spiciness (chili pepper, black pepper, wasabi) → Often rejected as it’s perceived as pain
- Sourness (vinegar, citrus fruits, tomatoes) → Often associated with unripe fruit or spoilage
- Bitterness (green peppers, bitter gourd) → Instinctively avoided as it may be misidentified as poison
Tip: Since “taste changes with experience,” it’s important to let them adjust gradually without rushing!
- “Tips for Children Who Don’t Like Spicy Food”
The key is to adjust dishes to be less spicy while maintaining flavor rather than serving spicy food right away.
- Tips for Making Curry Less Spicy
- Add tomatoes or honey to mild curry to emphasize sweetness
- Add a bit of milk or yogurt to make it milder
- Adjusting Spices in Chinese Dishes
- Remove chili from mapo tofu and use a sweet miso or soy sauce base instead
- Replace vinegar-soy sauce for dumplings with ponzu + sugar and sesame oil for a milder taste
- Spice Alternatives
- Black pepper → Paprika powder (similar appearance but not spicy)
- Chili pepper → Add flavor with sweet curry powder or garlic powder
Tip: “Don’t force them to eat, but adjust the flavoring so they can enjoy the taste”!
- “Tips for Children Who Don’t Like Sour Food”
To reduce sourness, it’s effective to combine it with sweetness and umami.
- Methods to Reduce Sourness
- Heat the vinegar (heating reduces sourness)
- Add sweetness (honey, mirin, fruits)
- Combine with mild seasonings (mix with yogurt or soy milk)
- Recipe Adaptations Using Sour Ingredients
- Vinegared dishes → Add sugar and ground sesame for sweetness
- Tomato sauce → Add ketchup and onions for sweetness
- Citrus fruits → Combine with yogurt or banana to make the sourness milder
Tip: “Don’t serve sour flavors straight, but combine them with sweetness and mild flavors”!
- “Tips for Developing Taste Preferences”
Instead of trying to force immediate adaptation, encourage taste development through gradual challenges.
- Introduce the “One Bite Challenge”: “You don’t have to eat it all, just try one bite!”
- Serve foods prepared in different ways: “They might eat it when it’s grilled, simmered, or mixed differently!”
- Have adults eat while saying “Delicious!”: “Children become more interested when they see parents enjoying the food!”
Tip: “Taste expands through experience,” so let them try repeatedly and adjust gradually!
3. Important Points and Tips
- “Forcing them to eat can be counterproductive”
Reluctant eating can strengthen their aversion and make them dislike the food even more.
- “If it doesn’t work once, try again after some time”
Taste preferences can change after a few months, so take a long-term perspective with the mindset “It’s okay if they can’t eat it now!”
- “Try again with different food forms and cooking methods”
For example, if they don’t like tomatoes, heating them to bring out the sweetness can make them more palatable.
4. Summary and Next Steps
For children who don’t like spicy or sour foods, it’s important to let them adjust gradually as their taste preferences change with growth. Let’s start with:
- Add richness and flavor instead of spiciness to help them become familiar with tastes naturally
- Combine sour flavors with sweetness and umami to make them more palatable
- Start with the “One Bite Challenge” and try different cooking methods to expose them to new tastes as initial steps! By expanding their food preferences at their own pace, they’ll naturally come to enjoy various flavors!